Love First Is… A Framework
To make it easily usable, teachable, and versatile, Love First is composed as a framework.

I started my career as a writer, then a software engineer, then a product designer, and throughout it all I thought a lot about systems.
Software systems. Social systems. Linguistic systems. All manners of them.
Systems thinking was a skill I found tremendously useful in all of my endeavors, work or otherwise, because our entire society is built on top of and around systems. And systems can be dauntingly complex to understand…
…but tools and frameworks are often (much) more accessible.
And we need Love First to be accessible, for it to be easily usable by millions of people.
That’s why Love First has been formulated into a 55-piece framework: to help people understand, integrate, and apply it into every aspect of their lives, with ease and grace.
You can use the framework as guidance for improving relationship dynamics, creating greater career success, attracting and manifesting what you want in life, and becoming the best version of yourself. But you can also use it as a lens to evaluate through, looking at conflicts big and small and having a compass to help you navigate it.
This framework is pragmatic, widely applicable and usable, and intuitive to work with. Each piece can offer wisdom, guidance, and strategy by itself, but it is in their collective that their true power shines. Think of it as the compound interest in a savings account, or when creating good habits: with each additional piece you put into practice, you get better and better results.
That’s why Going Love First is an invitation to embody being a Love First Person. But more on that, tomorrow!
Be with Love 🫶🏼
Faruk a.k.a. Supernova